One day while I was struggling yet again with all I had to do and children’s poor attitudes I sat down to write out a list. Writing helps me to focus. As I was flipping through my note book I came across a page from a previous time I had done the same thing. At the top was written “I want my focus to be maintaining the house and enjoying the kids.” As I read this I thought, “No, that’s not what I want my focus to be.” I crossed it out and wrote “Jesus”. He is my focus, at least I long for Him to be. If I focus on Jesus He will change me where I need changing and give me the grace to let other things go. My focus is Jesus. Is yours?